My sweet beautiful little boy was constipated twice last year, thankfully no worries any more, he's regular, but he's terrified and traumatized and before I can even consider helping him potty train, I need to help him relax and feel comfortable in his own skin. I know chamomile and lavender are very helpful, but any suggestions on what else I can give him to help him relax and feel safe and comfortable? I cuddle and kiss him a lot and play with him and he eats his favorite yummy healthy snacks. I'm googling...anyone here have special needs children younger than 6yo or know someone who does with experience who can help me? Thank you.